Thursday, March 16, 2006

Dhuleti

Day 2 of the festival of Holi!

The day started out like it has every year. Rushing through the morning and coordinating with friends. This year we weren’t just getting together and playing it by the ear.

This time we had a full blown party happening and I was one of the hosts along with Harsh, Viral, Manan and Bunny. We wanted to make sure that all our friends got together at one place, so we could spend the day with all of them and still be together.

Just because we were hosts, we didn’t want to be stuck not having fun, so we decided to have everything professionally taken care of. We had caterers, waiters, a dj, a bar man, the works.

By the time I got to the venue, with some friends in tow, the party was already on. We promptly joined in and in no time I was a pink, blue and yellow.

Now usually every one plays with colored powders that wash of easy. But I do know that a few of my friends have the knack of being sneaky and pulling out colors that hold fast. I was prepared for this, but most weren’t.

Very soon these guys had pulled out their super strong colors. Some of these are metallic looking powders which when wet change color to a brilliant fuchsia or blue or purple. Some colors came out tubes and some powders from little boxes. Suffice to say all these are bound to last more than a few days.

As usual there was a lot of merriment; screaming and shouting, music and dancing, running and chasing and a lot of laughter. The food was yummy and the beverages cold under the hot sun.

Water plays a big part of the day. We would have loved to have a pool that we could all jump into, but that wasn’t possible. The next best thing we could do was set up a complex sprinkler system on the dance floor, creating a so called ‘rain dance’.

I admit I was skeptical about this, but it worked like a dream. We spent hours under the water! Of course this helped rid us of a lot of the color too. What was brilliant was a few of our guests who weren’t playing Holi also got under the showers.

By the time we all got home, none of us remember what was happening around us. I know what an effort it was to have a bath and get the color of me and out of my hair. I had to wash my hair something like 8 times before the water ran clear.

All this was yesterday. Today my whole body is aching and I am still exhausted. But I think the party was a blast. I am so glad we made this day happen, as I am sure are the rest of the hosts of the party!

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Holi

The festival of colors is upon us. Today is Holi, a festival of exuberance that marks the end of winter and the advent of spring.

The first day of the festival coincides with the full moon night of Phalguna. In the evening, fires are lit and people walk around the flames with an offering of water and grains as a form of worship.

The story goes that a demon king called Hiranyakasyapu had a son Prahlad, who was a devout follower of Lord Vishnu. This infuriated his father. In spite of many warnings, Prahlad didn’t cease his devotion. The king tried to kill him in many ways and finally called for his sister Holika. She was blessed by the Gods that no fire would hurt her. The king made her take his son on to her lap and sit in a fire. To everyone’s surprise, Holika was burnt and Prahlad remained unscathed.

The burning of Holi commemorates this event and is a symbolization of the triumph of good over evil.

On the second day, that is called ‘Dhuleti’ here in Gujarat; people celebrate by throwing colored powders and water on each other. There is a lot of merriment in the air. Music, dancing and revelry are very much a part of it.

That day is tomorrow. My group (kutumb) and I are hosting a party for about a 100 of our Holi loving friends. It promises to be a wonderful day. Watch this space for more…

Saturday, January 14, 2006

Tukkal

The evening of Uttrayan!

The gathering of the friends kind of continues in the evening. For the last 2 years this has been happening at my friends Niral and Pallavi’s house.

After some general merriment, we get down to the serious business of flying the tukkal. This is a heavy kite that is flown with a very strong and sharp thread and after it gathers a decent height, paper lanterns with candles in them are attached at various intervals.

Normally you will see 4 to 8 lanterns on each line. Last year our gang managed to put up 13 lanterns. This year we broke our own record and put up 16 lights. And it was a breathtaking sight.

If you aren’t careful, by the time you get to the last few lanterns, some of the previous ones start to burn, so you can’t afford to take too long about it. If you put them too close together then the kite and string can’t take the weight. So it’s all a matter of moving fast and precisely.

The other thing that you have to be very careful about is predators; people who fly normal kites and attack the tukkal trying to bring it down. To safeguard against this, there are usually at least 2 friends who will fly kites on either side of the tukkal at great heights to get rid of any of these predators, sort of like scouts.

As you can see it is all really good fun.

Makar Sankranti

This is a harvest festival celebrated on the 14th of January across the country. The names vary as do some of the ways of celebrating it.

Translated Makar is ‘Capricorn’ (as in the Zodiac sign) and Sankranti means ‘to change direction’. Put together the name of this festival denotes the transition of the sun into Capricorn. It is an auspicious time for us and also a time for great celebrations.

In Gujarat this day is called Uttrayan and is celebrated as the Kite Flying festival.

From the morning everyone climbs to their roof top terraces and the skies are covered with colorful kites. Music blasts from speakers all over and competition is fierce.

I am not a kite flyer myself, but I love going to my friends’ houses to share in the merriment. For many years’ friends living in the same colony as me used to host this day as an annual event. Sadly they shifted away, and that tradition came to an end.

Then I discovered that another friend, Inderjit, and his family also host this day as an annual event and I have been going there ever since. Being a Sikh family, they always have the most outstanding biryani for lunch. Before that there are snacks and punch and then fudge for dessert. They haven’t tried to change the menu for as long as I remember and thank god for that.

We hang around there for most of the day, going home only to crash out in the late afternoon.

The evening is another tale…

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Happy 2006 everybody…

It’s been ages since I posted anything on this blog. But then it’s been a while since I celebrated a festival.

Usually the month of December here in Ahmedabad, means a month of parties and more parties. The weather is the best and the nights are long. Since we have hardly any ‘discos’ to go to, most of these parties are privately held. Those who are well networked into the social fabric of this town get invited to most of these dos. The rest try and wrangle invitations however they can.

This year for some reason I seem to have fallen of the social horizon, or maybe my generation is getting a little on the older side for the people who host parties. Either way, there weren’t too many of these parties to go for. And luckily it didn’t matter, because for a better part of the party month I was sitting sunning myself on the beaches of Goa with my family (will post a travelogue on my other blog soon).

Over the last few years Christmas / New Years has been becoming more and more popular even in the little town of mine. Buildings are lit up. Stores are decorated. There are loads of gifts for Children and Santa Claus is everywhere.

Christmas Eve 2005 I was in Delhi to celebrate my brother’s birthday (24th December) with him. We were all geared up to go party at a place in Noida, but circumstances made us turn back and we brought in Christmas at home watching the 3 Tenors live in Beijing on TV.

New Year’s Eve was much more fun. A friendhad invited me to join their gang at her place for a Barbeque. It was just 11 of us and it turned out to be one of the best parties I have been to in a long time. Thanks Apara for including me last night. There are some pictures but I will have to wait for Visha to send them to me. When she does I will place some here.

I don’t remember the last time I woke up on the 1st of January without a hangover. I take it as a good start to a new year.

Here’s wishing everyone a brilliant 2006!

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Sayla

We were supposed to leave for Sayla at 9.30 am, or so it had been decided. Of course 9.30 am came and went, and eventually my ride came at 11.00. I was going to be in the car with Inderjit and Chirag, while Amit, Jyoti, her sister Jagruti and their friend Anjali were traveling in the other car.

We left, made a few stops for a few provisions and were on our way. 60 kilometers on the way, Chirag’s car started acting up. The boys managed to get it going again, but another 15 minutes and the problems started again. They decided to be gentlemen and asked me to join the rest of the girls in the other car. Amit would drive us to Sayla and would come back for the other 2 boys if the problems continued.

Another hour and we reached our destination; “The Old Bell Guest House”. Interestingly, this place must me 1 kilometer or less from the main highway, but the minute you drive in there, you hear nothing. They have these lovely lands with greenery and fields all around.

We parked at the end of the drive way and were waiting for word that our rooms were ready. There are some swings and seats cut from old tree barks, so that’s where we sat enjoying the surroundings.

We were shortly shown to our rooms, they were the first 2 rooms on the upper level of this old two storey building. Entry to the rooms was from this long running balcony. Once in, it was like stepping a little back in time. The rooms were done up simply but very tastefully, with wooden floors, large enough to accommodate 5 people comfortably, decent sized dressing rooms that opened out onto smaller balconies at the back. For a luxurious stay, all rooms have 24 hour cable tv, spilt air conditioners and hot and cold running water.

The room we girls chose was the first one and it had this adorable quaint wooden balcony on a third side. A lovely place to pull up a lazy chair and read for a while.

Since this place caters to a very small number of people (it has a total of 10 rooms of which 1 room is occupied by the owners of the hotel), they are very flexible in their services. We requested lunch at 3.00 pm and they were happy to do this. Till then we played some music and chatted; basically relaxed. It was around this time that Niral finally joined us.

Lunch was a nice homely affair with good food and lots of laughs. Post this everyone got into a gaming mood. The boys played volleyball till they realized that on a full stomach, physical exertion in the sun ain’t a good idea.

Some played chess on the big outdoor chess board, some played carom; one decided to pit his wits against a computer game while one decided to take pictures of the rest. The fact that I am in none of the pictures should tell you who that last one is. Then there was a horse for rides. It had a darling little foal following it around, feeding any chance it got.



Before you knew it evening was upon us and the photographer, yes me, got tired of all the clicking. The game of chess was getting more intense and for those like me who don’t understand head or tail of the game, time was a wasting. The grounds were wonderful to go for a walk and that’s what I did.

At some stage chess was abandoned and we geared up for a night of partying. Lots of music, good f & b and a wild game of dumb charades were the order of the day. Dinner was a late night affair. Again the owners were gracious enough to serve hot food to us in the middle of the night. Maybe saying us is a little out of sync, since I wasn’t there. At some point a little earlier I decided that I had had enough and went to the room to sleep.

When the rest came up, they decided that waking me up made some sense (wonder why that didn’t occur to them at dinner), once awoken I couldn’t go back to sleep. The four of us who were awake (Niral, Inderjit, Chirag and Me) settled down to play a game of phase 10 (if you haven’t played this game, you have been missing something).

Being awake till the wee hours of the morning does lead some people to mischief, the more juvenile the better. The recipient of this wasn’t very thrilled, needless to say. It was around 6.30 when we finally slept.

The next day…

It started for me at 9.30 with Amit hovering around like a house fly. I gave up on trying to go back to sleep and got dressed instead. It took a few hours for the rest to rouse themselves, get dressed, etc. Another round of phase 10 accompanied breakfast. At the end of all this it was nearing lunch time.

Another delicious meal and then we were ready to head back home. This time I drove back with Niral, since he had come alone. The other 3 girls were with Amit and Inderjit and Chirag were going to take it easy coming back in Chirag’s car, to ensure that it got back safely to Ahmedabad.

Since Niral decided to take it easy and drive leisurely, it took just over 2 hours for us to get back. It was a thoroughly pleasant drive and with that ended our weekend jaunt.

While settling the bill, we realized how reasonable the trip had turned out to be. Many thanks to Chirag for setting things up for us and to the owners of ‘Old Bell’ – Somraj and Preeti Chudasma for being such wonderful hosts. It’s definitely a place visiting again, and I think we all agree that we will go back soon.

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

Appreciation

I never believed I could be a writer. But I always wanted to be one.

At one stage of my life I started writing poetry and the few people I shared it with seemed to really like my work. But unlike many poets I could never write unless the correct inspiration hit me. Which meant I wrote very rarely and very little. My last one was written 11 months ago.

My father and a friend pushed me into starting a blog. Then dad introduced me to a community of bloggers (Dud Sea Scrawls). I started writing with a vengeance and if I were to go by the comments I received, not only do I write well, but my subjects are interesting also.

The poetry fizzled out and so did my blogging… Until a few weeks back! I wanted to create a one page write up on the Indian festival of Diwali for my customers all over the world. This led me to thinking of writing about all our Indian celebrations (an idea I have been toying with since college) and so I created this new blog.

Again the words of appreciation started coming in. To be very honest, for me, appreciation of my writing is akin to a hedonistic pleasure.

And then something happened to over shadow everything. My fiancé saw my new blog and sent me an email. I have never known such appreciation before. This has to be one of the biggest compliments I have ever got. It left me speechless. It is too wonderful to keep it private. With his consent I am publishing it here for the world to see.

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That was awesome jaan... I just read your new blog… Every time I think you outdid yourself, you go ahead and do it all over again… It was fantastic love; absolutely amazing…

It’s like you have taken the festival, your wishes and your rangoli to a different level… Your idea of the virtual rangoli has actually taken it to newer places outside the confines of your house into the millions of homes that are going to read it and celebrate the festival wishing you even if they don’t write back…

I can’t imagine what its like to be you, to have that creativity and the… JAAN I AM SIMPLY OUT OF WORDS, it is fantastic...

Thanks for a wonderful Diwali present to all of us… I say that not just for myself but for all the people that are going to read this… JAAN SIMPLY AMAZING…

HAPPY DIWALI LOVE.......

& WE WILL HAVE A GREAT NEW YEAR AND A WONDERFUL LIFE AHEAD.....

Love
JJ


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What can I say to this? Thank you so much JJ… your words mean the world to me and you even more so.

All the signs tell me not to stop writing. I hope I don’t, because I really enjoy it, and I hope you don’t stop reading and commenting.

Here’s to lots of creativity and many more writings… Cheers!

Thursday, November 03, 2005

Bhai Beej and the Jain New Year

Happy new year once again! And a Happy Bhai Beej… 2 celebrations in one…

This time last year…

I dropped my fiancé at the train station and rushed home to get the prayer thali ready for my brothers who would be coming home to meet me.

None of these boys are related to me by blood, but I have tied them rakhis (I’ll explain this one soon) for many years and they are closer than any blood brothers can be.

First came Amit and he brought his lovely fiancé, Jyoti with him. And then came Jigesh. I applied the vermillion tika on their heads and the rice grains. Then I did the arti (saying prayers while circulating the sacred flame) and fed them some prasad.

I spent most of the day with Jigesh.

And this year…

Since the Jains celebrate their new year today, my mom’s family had a get-together. So my parents and I went there in the morning and met the whole family.

After which I went out for lunch with my friends and then called on some people – parents of my closest friends.

For some reason or the other, I couldn’t meet any of my brothers this time on this day. I really missed them. Especially Jigesh, this festival hasn’t felt complete without him.


Jigesh & Me a few Diwalis ago

I am ending this evening by having dinner with mum and dad, and then maybe I’ll watch a movie.

The day after today me and some friends are off on a mini vacation. Ok an overnight trip really… but it should be fun to get out of the city. It’s a place called Sayla where we will be staying at a heritage property. The driving time from Ahmedabad to Sayla is less than 2 hours.


Map courtesy www.answers.com

Pictures and update on that when I get back to work on Monday. Till then… adios amigos…

Wednesday, November 02, 2005

Happy New Year

The start of the new year according to the Hindu calendar. In fact based on this calendar we are actually starting the year 2062. Apparently we are running ahead of the rest of the world. Thankfully in normal life we use the Gregorian calendar, other wise we would be really confused.

This time last year…

We didn’t go for the usual family get-together at mom’s relatives’ house because my grandfather had passed away only a few months before and technically my family was still in mourning.

But on the upside, my fiancé was here on leave, so I spent most of the day with him. There were more fire crackers in the evening and a good time spent with friends. All in all a nice lazy holiday.

And this year…

The usual family get-together is going to be tomorrow. It’s really odd this counting of dates thing. My mom and her family are Jains and they are celebrating the New Year tomorrow. The Hindus on the other hand are celebrating it today. I have no issues, since this way I get 2 new years (dad and his family are Sindhis; so technically Hindus).

My dad’s mother was leaving this evening to go visit her sisters in Bombay, we spent most of the day with her. Went out for a nice lunch the four of us, then I took my mom out shopping. Later I dropped my grandmother off and came home.

One of my closest friends, Chandani, had dropped in to pay her respects to my parents. During this festival it is customary for people to go and visit elder relatives and parents of close friends. We tend to go and ‘touch their feet’, a gesture that is made to ask for their blessings.

Chandani also brought her son along. His name is Jehan and he is the one who calls me Kaaguma. She brings him to touch my parent’s and my feet. It is really an odd feeling to have someone do that to you the first few times. And since he is the only one who does it to me, I am not getting used to it (makes me feel old :-) ).


Jehan with my parents, who he calls nani and nan

Those being asked for blessings tend to give the younger ones a small token (either a gift or money) as a part of their blessings.

After this mom, dad and I went to my maternal grandmother’s house to have dinner with her and my mom’s brother, his wife and daughter. Dinner was delicious and I over ate as usual. Now I am ready to drop off… It would be nice to catch up on some sleep.

So goodnight all and I wish you a wonderful new year.

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

Happy Diwali!

The day we have all been waiting for is here. Bringing with it all the traditions, customs and rituals that go with it.

This time last year…

A mad rush in the morning to get dressed in time and leave for the office, where prayers will be conducted at the account books for a year of good fortune.

After the prayers in the office, lunch at a family friends house, where we have been going for years now. Then back home to enjoy day 1 of the 5 day vacation that is going to follow.

In the evening after lighting all the lamps, we go off to my grand mother’s house for the evening prayers. Dinner is as usual a family affair and after dinner I join my friends wherever they are to burst fire crackers.

And this year…

It was the same mad rush this morning. The whole family got dressed and went to the office for the prayers. Our entire staff had gathered there.

A picture of our Gods and Goddesses was placed with flowers around it. Sugar cane stalks with leaves were placed on the left side and without leaves in front of the picture. 7 clay lamps and incense were lit. I applied the traditional tika and rice to the Gods and then put an offering of sweet and some more flowers. This ritual was repeated by Kanika – daughter my father’s partner in the business.


Me & Kanika performing the rituals and prayers

This was followed by the ritual opening of the new account books. Where we write the ‘shri savaa’ and make a swastika and 5 tikas. Then a small prayer is written at the bottom.


Opening the new account books

After the prayers, I applied the traditional tika on every one’s forehead and then did the same with all the computers in the office. It seems funny to do that, but you would be surprised how many people do it. Now a days nearly all business is done on a computer. It makes sense including it in your prayers.


Staff & Family members who were present

On behalf of the business sweets are given to everyone and after a few laughs and lots of good wishes, we all left. As always we went to the same family friend’s house for lunch. And as usual they had laid out a feast.

We all ate tons and then came back home more asleep than awake.

I spent the afternoon making a new rangoli. For some reason this time I can’t seem to get beyond simple designs. When I compare them to the stuff I have done over the years, I am not too happy. But everyone at home likes them, so how can I argue.



My grandmother had the prayers in the evening. Dinner was with the family. This time I wasn’t going to join my friends later, so I was standing out in the balcony watching the fire crackers light up the sky.


The view from my balcony of the fire crackers

They have now been going on for hours. The smoke is getting too much for me so I am now inside in the comfort of an air conditioned room

Another Diwali has come and gone… I hope the new year brings good fortune too everyone I know…

Happy Diwali everyone… Goodnight.